Traditions

Discover the authentic traditions of a Moldovan wedding.

Moldovan Wedding Traditions

Amar
“Amar” is shouted at weddings to symbolize both the sweetness of love and the bitterness of the sacrifices and responsibilities that come with marriage. The word prompts a kiss between the bride and groom, signifying their acceptance and unity in facing all aspects of married life, both beautiful and challenging.

Throwing the Bouquet
One of the most anticipated moments of the wedding is the throwing of the bouquet. This tradition symbolizes passing on good fortune and love to the unmarried women, who hope to be the next to find their soulmate. The bride turns her back and, with a smile, tosses the bouquet into the group of bridesmaids. It is said that the one who catches the bouquet will be the next to marry.

Godparents
The godparents are a couple who become the spiritual parents of the bride and groom, playing an essential role in their married life from the moment of the wedding. They provide moral and spiritual support, guiding the couple through the challenges and difficulties that may arise in family life. The godparents provide wisdom and support, guiding the newlyweds in cultivating a strong, harmonious, and enduring relationship. Additionally, they symbolize the unity and bond between the two families, playing an important role in maintaining balance and harmony in the marriage. They will be by the bride and groom’s side throughout the entire celebration.

Unveiling the Bride
This custom refers to the moment when the godmother removes the bride’s veil, symbolizing the beginning of a new chapter in the couple’s life. It is also seen as a moment when the bride leaves behind her status as a “maiden” and takes on her new role as a “wife” or “homemaker.”

The Bride’s Bread
The bride’s bread is a symbol of prosperity, abundance, and unity in marriage. Usually, it is a round loaf of braided bread that is torn by the bride and groom during the wedding. According to tradition, the one who gets the larger piece of bread will assume the role of “head of the household.” This custom represents balance and collaboration between the couple, even if there is a humorous undertone regarding who will “dominate” in the marriage. The bread is shared with the wedding guests, carrying wishes of luck and happiness for the couple’s future.